Ok, to be honest, I am a little nervous about even started this post. I am what is called an X-Phile, one who really, really loves the X-Files. I have been a lover since I was 11 years old and it that love has only strengthened since. Honestly, I love the show and love to discuss it and the many, many themes that come up in it. So, I am not entirely sure if this is an ethnography since I am one of the people being studied, but let’s do this anyway, it will give me a chance to write about the X-Files.
So, I am a member of an X-Files fan site on fanpop. I read the questions posed to my fellow Philes, answer when I deem the question legitimate, and literally swear out loud when I read a post that I consider utterly absurd, i.e. “Yes!!! Mulder and Scully were totally meant to be together!” Uh, no, they were not, you foolish excuse for a Phile. Have you seen what their relationship came from? Did you watch its development? Do you think any marriage or committed relationship could comfortably contain all of that? Have you ever even watched a fricken episode??!! God! NO, you are wrong. They were not meant to be together like THAT. It is hard for me to be objective.
Anyways, Philes allow themselves to be absorbed into the show. They care deeply for the characters, judge them when they are doing something wrong, forgive them for their faults, care for their families, embrace their weaknesses, and I could go on. We discuss these things. As Philes, we discuss the characters like they were our own children and we only want what is best for them, but we know that they will have to live their own lives.
Anyone I know who is a true Phile watches the show in the same way, silent. Whereas other shows demand commentary, the X-Files does not, at least while the episode is showing. That is why we talk online. The X-Files and the internet have a close relationship. It was one of the first shows whose followers capitalized on chat rooms for discussion of episodes. Yah, the followers can be a bit subterranean. Silence is key to watching episodes because there is so much there. If the plot is weak—yes, they occasionally are—then you are listening for Mulder’s quirky one liners, watching for Scully’s exasperated face when she realizes that Mulder is in over his head and she needs to dig him out, or listening for the subtle changes in music done so masterfully by Mark Snow. When others talk during the episodes, well, tempers tend to flare. Now, if these uneXposed viewers genuinely want to know what is going on, then we will be happy to fill them in, but they should not expect our full attention or complete answers, until after the show.
Philes are open minded. The show deals with both sides of many issues: spirituality/science, platonic/erotic love, revenge/forgiveness, so on and so on. These are big issues and the X-Files deals with them carefully. The show has actually helped me to become more tolerant of some issues.
I could go on but it would be better to talk about this in person.